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Getting to Know Me

You may call me Miss Suffer, or Miss S; either one is acceptable.  I’m not overly fond of the use of the word Mistress, unless that relationship exists between us.

My birthday is September 21st, and I am in my 40s.  I love the age that I am.  For some women, there comes a point in life where we get very comfortable with who we are, and the confidence that comes with that can be devastatingly sexy.  I am one of those women.

I live in southern Indiana.  From time to time, I enjoy the company of carefully selected local play partners.  Though I appreciate any interest, it’s best that you know in advance that I am not looking to acquire any more, nor will I meet you, no matter how often or how large your tributes are.

I very much enjoy being a distance dominant, and intelligent phone sex calls.  The exchange of energy can be very powerful, and it adds another layer of pleasure to my life.  I also do other non-erotic things, and have been self-employed for several years.

I love learning new things, and often get totally lost time-wise as I explore something, my mind darting off down intriguing corridors.

Favorites

Color:  That depends on my mood, but I am a fan of gray.  Not dull, lifeless gray, but gray that swims with undertones of purple, and seems vibrant and shimmery.

Music: I like all types of music, but if pressed, classic rock is my favorite.

Holiday:  Thanksgiving.  I love Halloween, but it’s been commercialized.  Thanksgiving is the one holiday that remains that is truly about family.  Outside of the cost of the meal, there is no expectation except pumpkin pie, football, and togetherness.

TV Show:  Outside of sports, I don’t watch a great deal of TV.  Overall, I tend to like comedies.  Laughter is good for the soul.

Movie:  This is a tie between Uncommon Valor and Shawshank Redemption

Time of Day:  I have two, and they are dusk and dawn.

Season:  Though each has their own beauty, probably Spring, because it is the re-birth of flowers, and I love my flowerbeds.  While I can appreciate the beauty of Winter, I HATE cold weather, so it’s a beauty I’d much rather appreciate from afar.

Food:  If I had to pick one thing, it would be perfectly grilled salmon.

Sports:  As a spectator, the NFL (Dallas Cowboys) and college basketball (Indiana Hoosiers).  As a participant, my running days are mainly behind me, but I do log lots of miles of walking.

Hobbies:  While I have many erotic hobbies, I also enjoy reading, being outdoors, personal finance,  making bath and body products, dancing, DIY projects, learning new software, exercise, very amateur photography, and being with family and friends.  I also do volunteer work, as I believe in giving back.  Just not to you. ~soft laugh~  Your job is to entertain me.

What Kinds of Sessions I Like

Though by no means is this intended to be all-inclusive, I enjoy the following. If you like something that you don’t see mentioned, contact me. You may find that I like it as well. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

  • Sensual Domination
  • Orgasm Denial
  • Financial Domination
  • Puppy/Pony Play
  • Hardcore Domination
  • Sissy Training
  • Administering Pain
  • Strapon Play
  • Role Play
  • Forced Bi
  • CBT
  • Body Worship
  • Slave Training
  • Cuckolding
  • Orgasm Control
  • CFNM
  • Chastity Training
  • Goddess Worship
  • Tease and Denial
  • Feminization
  • Ruined Orgasms
  • Forced Intox
  • Erotic Humiliation
  • Power Exchange

Things I Don’t Do

Just as each of you have things that you are not interested in, so do I.  I do not do any of the following, so don’t annoy me by asking.  I reserve the right to ban anyone from sessions, at any time, without prior notice.

  • Screaming, or anything that hurts my voice
  • Session with bottom toppers
  • Session with passive aggressive people
  • Public Exposure/Public Outing/Public Humiliation is limited to mild exposure in adult bookstores, or very mild exposure when dressers are shopping.  This comes back to consensual activity. That concept applies to all, not just those in session.  That does not mean that dressers cannot dress in public.  It means that I will not give you assignments that harass, annoy, or bother the girls in Victoria’s Secret so that you can get your public humiliation kicks.  I will, however, give shopping assignments that are respectful of other people. Please note that there is a vast difference between doing these things in fantasy and actually being assigned them.  Public humiliation is fair game in fantasy. I also will not be on the phone with you while you speak to anyone else to satisfy your need to be outted.

Acceptable to counter girl at clothing store:  “Miss, I would like to buy some panties today.  Can you advise me on what size might fit me?”

Unacceptable to counter girl at clothing store:  “I’m so excited to be here!  My clitty is dripping in my panties.”

Acceptable to staff at adult book/toy store:  “My Mistress has instructed me to get an anal plug. Is it okay to use this one with oil based lubricant?”

Unacceptable to staff at adult book/toy store:  “My Mistress has sent me to get a new dildo.  Do you have one that can really make my asshole gape?”
  • Actual blackmail.  I will not put myself in jeopardy for your kink. That means that I will not access any of your financial accounts, etc from my computer.  However, I will be glad to watch your computer as you make the tribute yourself.
  • Emetophilia (Roman Showers/Vomit Fetish)
  • I do not switch. Ever.
  • Scat play of any type

Are you ready to play?
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