The Bitch is Back

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And that bitch would be me.

Though I’ve been able to stay in touch with my stable of regulars, I’ve not had an opportunity to really sign on openly for a few months. I’ve changed re-entered an old career, and have been hit with a crap-ton of stuff in my first few months there.

Yes, crap-ton is a word. Because I say so.

I know that several of you have tried to reach me.  I can see the missed calls and it makes me sad, because I am sure that I would have enjoyed tormenting you.  But fear not…I have an assistant at work now, and I am going to have more time to call my own.

Which means more time to delight in playing with more of you.

I will also be operating on a semi-regular schedule starting on the 26th.  That does not mean anything too rigid.  The very notion of that just makes the rebel in me want to stomp my boots right down on your balls.

Honestly, truth be told, I want to do that a lot of the time anyhow.  But there will be times when you can *generally* count on me being around.

I’ll be engaged in some private play over the weekend, but there will be ebbs and flows to that.  If I get the chance, and am inclined, I may pop on.  If not, I will post more info on anticipated hours at the beginning of the week.

Savor the anticipation.


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Let’s Talk About Male Chastity or Locked Cocks Are Fun!

I want you locked up!

I want you locked up!

One of the most satisfying sounds in the world is hearing a lock click shut that is miles away from me, while I hold the key in my hand.  I lose track of the number of men that approach me in a week’s time, and they all claim to want to “serve” me in some manner.

A good number of them have no desire to truly serve,  and display that by their failure to follow the most rudimentary of tasks through to completion.  That is a weeding out process, and I use it liberally.  That will perhaps be something that we discuss in another post.

However, today I want to talk about those that not only do follow through, but continue to follow through all the way to the point that cock control morphs into chastity.  I always love when that happens.  When we re-visit the most elemental aspect of my sexual psyche…that control trips my trigger…then it’s easy to see why the sound of that lock clicking gives me a rush that is simply indescribable.

Chastity and Being a Keyholder

As with most other fetishes or kinks, if it is something that you aren’t in to, chastity can seem confounding to a non-devotee.  I think it is probably akin to financial domination in terms of being a nebulous concept that lots of people can’t understand.

After all, it seems rather astounding that someone would not only voluntarily long to have their orgasms denied, but that they’d take the step of locking themselves in chastity, and allowing someone else to be the keyholder.

However, allowing really isn’t the right word, as it is a case of begging me to take their key.  I don’t get my psychological jollies by demanding things.  I like it when my prey is so enamored of me that they willing offer, and oft times plead with me to take whatever it is that they wish to give, whether that is a key, a leash, money, or any other area of control.

Chastity is Addictive

When one is serving via chastity, they know that they are doing what any good submissive should be doing, and that is pleasing their Mistress.  The level of control handed over is often unlike anything they’ve ever experienced before.

There is also a heightened awareness of not only their bodies, but their place in the universe.  Everything is more vibrant, and that dull ache of fullness is their constant companion.

I cannot count the number of times that I’ve granted a chastity pet release,  watched as they enjoyed an *incredible* orgasm, and then witnessed the deflation of spirit that happens after the bliss of the orgasm recedes.  They miss the sensations of fullness, and the feeling of being so deliciously bound to me by being chaste.  That is a situation that is easy to rectify, and begins anew once the cage is securely in place again.

Favorite Chastity Devices

I am a big fan of the CB line of chastity devices for men.  Though a metal sheathed cock is visually appealing, it simply won’t work for my clients who travel.  Not unless I wish to subject them to a very real public humiliation experience. ~soft laugh~

The CB line has the benefit of being affordable and durable.  I like the clear polycarbonate.  It allows you to see what you can’t touch.  I rather like to imagine that you do so with a wistful, yearning expression.

That pleases me.

I’ll continue more along this vein in the next post.  We’ll talk about the perils of “honor system” chastity, why a keyholder is important, and more.

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Remote Control Sex Toys – Playing with a High Joy

Remote control toys are fun!

Remote control toys are fun!

I’ve been on a mission to find the absolute perfect sex toy for distance domination.  I wasn’t aware of it until I began my search, but there is a term for it, and that is teledildonics.  I don’t know why, but that makes me grin.

I’ve not yet found exactly what I am looking for.  Frankly, I don’t even know if it exists in, and considering this is 2012, that is a shame.   I want something that doesn’t cost thousands of dollars,  is easy to set up for the technically challenged, and does not require the recipient of sensation to be tethered to their computer, or even close to it.  I also want something that has devices that will work for men who want me to remotely control a simulated stroking as well as those who want me to fuck them from a distance.  I’m still looking, but after many hours of searching, I’ve decided that this would be a really good market for someone to own, as it seems to be wide open.

Exploring with a High Joy

Since I had a sissy slut who was frothing all over her lipsticked lips to get started, I decided to go with a product from High Joy

As sissy wanted her greedy hole stuffed, I told her to order the Doc Johnson HighJoy Enabled iVibe Controller w/ 6″ Vibrating Ballsy.  She did, and in addition to setting up premium accounts for us both, she had a unit shipped to me so that I could see what the sensations were like. The image to the right is exactly what we both got.  At the time of purchase, it was the only product offered that was really going to work for playtime with a sissy. Amazon offers a High Joy  product that may be what you are looking for.  I didn’t know how the rabbit apparatus would work with her, so I passed on that.

 An Overview of the High Joy – Pros and Cons

I’m not going to go on at length about what the toy doesn’t do that I knew it wasn’t capable of before I got it. For instance, I knew that in order for me to use it on my slut that her device would have to be connected to a computer.  That isn’t a match for my ideal toy, but I knew that going in.

If you are considering purchasing one, see the product page on their site for what comes with it, and the system requirements.  As of this writing, they are including the serial to USB adapter for free, which I think is a good plan on their part.  I don’t know why it wasn’t designed to work with a USB connection in the first place, but perhaps they have a very good reason that is above my technical knowledge.

The toy itself seems to live up to the Doc Johnson name.  Overall, I am not a fan of the jelly texture of the dildo part, and neither is my sissy.  I would much prefer something that was of the same substance as the realistic dildo line from Doc Johnson.  I was watching my sissy on cam, and I could tell that she was having a difficult time inserting it.  I assure you that was due to the jelly material, not due to her ability to stuff something up her hole.

The possibility certainly exists that they have to go with the softer substance to let the vibrations transmit through it.  I’m not sure, but for us, it worked best to just play with the bullet and forget about the dildo.

As a side note, I had a question about set up, and the customer service team was back to me within an hour.

The Interface

The interface could use some work in terms of usability.  While I don’t feel that everything in the world must be changed to a Web 2.0 design,  it’s clunky, and seems like it may have been designed in the 90’s.  From an end user’s perspective, it is lacking.

For example, when I am logged in, and I tell it that I want to connect to a remote user, and I enter slut’s username, nothing happens on my end.  It would be good to have a notification telling me that it was waiting on the other party to accept me taking control of their device.  As is, I had no way of knowing, and I hit the button again.  That did give me a message that I had already sent a request.   That’s a small thing, but one that caught my eye.

Once I have actual control, a popup console is on my screen, and that allows me to click through the various settings, as well as pausing the device, or relinquishing remote access.

I like the pause feature.  Especially when slut is at the crest of neediness. ~soft laugh~

The lag time was surprisingly minimal.  Thus far, it has been most noticeable when initially establishing the connection.

On to the Good Stuff – Actual Playtime

As mentioned above, the jelly aspect of the dildo just wasn’t working for us.  If one were using it vaginally, they might have different results.  I decided that we could use the bullet in conjunction with some other fun items, and it would probably be fun to play with.

I was right.  It worked splendidly when held against her sissy stick, her sissy sack, ran over her nipples, teasing her sissy cunt, etc.

In conclusion, while it is not the internet controlled sex toy of my dreams, the High Joy is fun to play with.  I think that the psychological aspect of knowing that I was the one operating the controls was a huge one, judging from the way my sissy was rolling around on her hotel bed, moaning and leaking all over the place.  That said, it has it’s own merits as a stand alone sex toy, though I’d probably not purchase the particular model that we did for that use only.

Have you ever been on the receiving end of a remote control sex toy?  What setup did you use, and what did you think about the experience?



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Time to Crack That Whip

Time to Crack That Whip

Time to Crack That Whip

Just typing out those words put the tune of the Devo song “Whip It” in my head, and made me want to dance.  Alas, since there is no boot slut to bring me my dancing boots, I’ll stay right here in my chair, and see to the task at hand.

My Self Imposed Alarm Has Chimed

When I started out on this particular journey, I gave myself a year to figure out if it was something that I wanted to pursue or not.  I thought that would be an adequate amount of time to see how distance domination stacked up to face-to-face interactions, how power exchange would play out, etc.

That page of the calendar is history now, and I’ve decided that I do indeed enjoy it and wish to continue.  While I’m not going to claim to having really connected with every single person that I’ve spoken with in a year, there are enough of that I have truly connected with to know that distance domination is something that can work very well with the right parties.

That Said, I Want More Freedom

I’ve always been one to want to grab the reins and do things my own way.  Though as I think about it, I suppose that comes with the territory of being a dominant woman.

That desire, coupled with the experiences of the past year, have cemented the notion that I do indeed want to push forward and set up an independent line.   I want the freedom of really focusing on the calls that I enjoy most, and the people whose energy meshes best with my own.

Mistress Clone Machine, Anyone?

This will still be a process that unfolds over time.  I have many irons in the fire, and to add another won’t be a neat, tidy little thing right out of the gate.  Being a perfectionist, I debated on whether I wanted to wait until my blog was picture perfect, with a goodly backlog of reading material, before I went live with a number for calls.

I decided against that.  There is no need to wait.  Life isn’t perfect, and D/s is an evolutionary process, as will be not only this blog, but my ventures into the waters of an independent line.

So overlook the mess, or make yourself useful and pick up a broom.  I’m in the middle of a huge project that is not phone related, and it will be a bit before I have time to learn all the nuances of the framework of this blog.

That said, the important parts…the parts that really matter…are already in place.


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