Relinquishing Control

Notes: I think we’ll try something that should be fun. If you are a fan of any form of cock control, check back on Monday for a new masturbation games series.  I have also done a mini-update of my About page.

Let’s examine the word control, shall we?  The dictionary.com site defines it as “to exercise restraint or direction over; dominate; command”

Just reading that gives me a case of the pleasant shivers.  I am driven by the need to control.  One might say that it is the motive power for my sexual being.  It fuels the machine, so to speak.  Can I have experiences that are enjoyable that do not allow me to to control another?  Yes, of course.  But I find that for me…in terms of pleasure derived…they are a weak imitation.

Of course, for me to control, there needs to be someone to relinquish control.  That, pets, is where you come in.

Power Exchange

Power exchange can take on many forms.  I think that the term gets skewed and confused with TPE, or total power exchange.  While power exchange situations can certainly be of the total variety, it is not at all necessary, and 99.9% of them are not anything that resembles a total power exchange.  That could very easily lend itself to a very lengthy post about whether total power exchange really *is* total power exchange, but we’ll leave that for perhaps another time.

Types of Power Exchange

A power exchange can really be anything that the two parties involved agree that it should be.  One may simply need a respite from the demands of the day, and a 10 minute guided masturbation session is exactly what the doctor ordered.  Another may yearn to have their orgasms controlled on a long term basis.  Another may want me to dictate what types of panties they wear to work every day.  Another could want the non-erotic areas of their life controlled, and could want me to take the lead in any number of goals that they have.  The possibilities truly are endless, and each of them bring me pleasure.  Because they give me what I crave…control.

Why Give Up Control?

Obviously, the reasons for wanting to relinquish control are as varied as the individuals who wish to do it.  I do think that people who aren’t driven to one side of that coin falsely assume that the person who wants to give up control is weak in some regard.  My time with both distance domination and face-to-face has shown me that the opposite is most always true.

Generally speaking,  people who wish to cede control are people who are otherwise very much in control in one, if not many aspects of their lives.  There are the exceptions to that rule of course.  There are those who are such a jumbled mess that they need “fixing” and want me to take control of them.

However, for the most part, those of you who want to give up control…in whichever form you wish to do it…are dynamic, successful individuals that the rest of the world turns to for answers.  You seek a place where you don’t have to think, or make decisions. You seek a place that allows you the freedom to simply be…to experience…to feel…to be alive.

Don’t you?